well (somewhat) collectively we joined as a way to express our thoughts and cope as we didnt really have a way of doing that. we were groomed at a very young age and needed a way to express thoughts that are mainly directed towards that out, its also the non judgmental space and the fact we can find a safe space and community in here, for us its not really the sex or nsfw, its the fact we are able to go out of our way and be comfortable without the fear of judgment from our trauma