🏳️⚧️ ~ [ < heather > ] ~ · 3 answers · 30d
I strongly prefer cuddles as a primary form of physical intimacy, but sex is something I'm usually open to if I'm close to someone.
how do you feel about platonic cuddlepiles with a mix of friends and/or lovers, including nudity for anyone who is comfortable with, or prefers naked cuddles?
[ emphasis on not being sexual for the cuddles, even when it's naked cuddles ]
I get frustrated sometimes when it turns into someone wanting sex without communicating properly or respecting boundaries, and I've had bad experiences with that.
it's been a dealbreaker a few times, and I've lost friends over this when they assumed that sexuality was appealing or otherwise okay with me without making sure it was consensual.
when I say I want a cuddle, it's not me secretly wanting sex.
