heather is an actual 100% real housecat
I'm a good cat and I like to be friends
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Favorite passtime?
neurotypical normalgirling
enough drugs to get some necro sex which transitions from being high and enjoying sex, to someone freaky enjoying a body which is no longer warm.
If people had cuddles with each other, then what do you think of them giving kisses on the forehead, cheeks, or other non-sexual areas if they weren't romantically involved with each other during the cuddle?
intimate, lovely, and wholesome.
if it's not intended to be sexual harassment or cross a boundary, and doesn't approach that, and it's just a normal thing like a cat licking someone's arm as a way of being approving of a friend, it's normal and chill.
Should you be on some type of medication or something?
I'm on heart medication because I have a heart condition, and similarly I've got a spinal injury so I take like a muscle relaxer and some other stuff for the relevant stuff like my medication for OCD, etc.
I strongly prefer cuddles as a primary form of physical intimacy, but sex is something I'm usually open to if I'm close to someone.
how do you feel about platonic cuddlepiles with a mix of friends and/or lovers, including nudity for anyone who is comfortable with, or prefers naked cuddles?
[ emphasis on not being sexual for the cuddles, even when it's naked cuddles ]
I get frustrated sometimes when it turns into someone wanting sex without communicating properly or respecting boundaries, and I've had bad experiences with that.
it's been a dealbreaker a few times, and I've lost friends over this when they assumed that sexuality was appealing or otherwise okay with me without making sure it was consensual.
when I say I want a cuddle, it's not me secretly wanting sex.
How does SunnyD compare to other juices?
it's closer to bug juice / kool aid, but it's got a nice thick mouth feel in a way which is more enjoyable than orange juice.
best part is that it's pulp free and works good in mixed drink cocktails and mocktails. I like it with sparkling water or ginger ale.
I think it's time to order a pep-pep-pep-pepperoni pizza!
Hello, is this Fratelli's Pizza?!
I'd rather have some other kind of pork product [ not sausage or pepperoni ], if it has to be pork based topping.
what way you feeling rn?
a version of vulnerable which is shared by many.
the solidarity in this was not what I expected to find, but i'ts where I'm at.
finding out that I have peers who feel this same way means a lot to me, because most of the times I felt vulnerable involved very specific situations which I don't wish to discuss due to the traumatic nature of it.
there's trauma in being radqueer and not being able to openly and proudly be authentic during pride month though. it's hard, and breaks my heart.
southern sweet iced tea, lemonade, kool-aid, gatorade, hawaiian punch, SunnyD, capri sun, juice boxes, coke, pepsi, or other soft drinks / soda-pop of some kind, water.
what yu drinkin?
yu stayin hydrated?
water!!!
Do you think transage people will be accepted en masse in the future, like transgender people?
transgender people will never be accepted, so no.
transage people are already accepted, however.
Thoughts on AI being used in the creation of medical treatments?
good
You like doing daily crosswords?
Sexiest being on pedi? You can name multiple for different genders.
this question ain't even fair that's not why I'm on pedi how am I even supposed to answer this might as well say myself or aco or IDK pick someone less popular than me or aco like gary what's his name I forgot his name but like ~ fuck it, that guy sure why not
Cat in the Hat Underwater
also yes ( if this is about that other question, you won twice )
Cat in the Hat Drowns (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XIgJT5xglgs)
yes ( didn't watch don't care )
If ableism can fuck, then can homophobia freak or choke?
I think dogs should vote.
wolves too
Do you wish sometimes that you could go back in time to comfort your younger self? What year and age would you return to?
absolutely not the past was terrible and nothing about it was a good thing. I kinda wished if I was myself that I wouldn't be born for at least anothat 10-20 years so that my chrono-youth would take place at a time when I would suffer less. my generation really wasn't a good time to be born when my generation [chrono] was born, especially for my particular disabilities and being NDN lineage with NDN cultural upbringing and not having civil rights yet. I'm not even sure 20 years is going to be enough for indigenous peoples to have less of a screwy place in the world, but I sure hope it improve and doesn't continue to erode like it has during my lifetime. it's kind of worryingly unfair IMO that there might never be a good era to be born NDN, post-contact.
Is Gen Z and Gen alpha doomed, moreso than prior generations?
I wouldn't know which one(s) or why there's any doomed generations, so I don't think so? I'm pretty sure having better access to better education and more civil rights is making it less horrible than for my generation and ones older than mine, but also it depends if you're in a demographic which is stigmatized and marginalized, or if you're in one which has more advantages in life. it kinda depends on if you feel like increasing equality and fairness is a good thing or not, and because I'm hurt less by having been a disabled non-white kid growing up in my chrono-youth, modern culture has started to be less hard on kids like me, and younger kids [chrono, the younger generations], it's a lot safer than it was for me. I can't think of why there's more doom for younger generations even for the more average, or even privileged youth, so I actually think it's probably less doom not more.
How good do hugs feel as a chrono adult? Moreso than a chrono youth?
sometimes I found as chrono-youth adults I didn't feel comfortable or safe with would creep on me and demanded a hug even if I didn't want to. that feels gross at any age but being chrono-adult it happens less often so it started to feel nicer because I stopped having people I wasn't comfortable with feeling as entitled to demand a hug. adult-liberation being a default is rude, so I think that part is kind of the main reason, if not the only reason that it's felt safer and nicer as a chrono-adult. I'd probably have been able to appreciate hugs more as chrono-youth if I had an easier time declining a hug from someone older who I don't like, but I think that's more a matter of sometimes chrono-adults are pushy weirdos, so iunno. I have weird feelings about that because it feels unfair and I wish I got more hugs now like I used to? it's complicated but also if it's a safe hug I always liked it because those always felt good no matter what =^.^=
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